Hi Michelle, I am currently reading The Divorce Remedy and am in the process of the "last resort technique". My H has moved out and is in a bit of a "party mode" with heavy drinking, etc. He lives about two miles from our house but has not attempted to see our son in over two weeks now. (I have not spoken with him since Mon.) My question is what should I do where our son is concerned? Should I make comments about his lack of seeing him or just bite my tongue and hope he "wakes up" and sees how immature he is acting? It has nothing to do with him coming to the house because I have dropped our son off to him on several occasions so he can't use the excuse of avoiding me, I think he just has his priorities out of wack right now. Would mentioning our son be seen as manipulation/pursuing by him? Any suggestions? Thanks, Lisa