We never have control over someone else, just ourselves. We try to do the best we can to trigger loving, positive responses in others, but there are no guarantees. It's important to keep trying different approaches, just as you're doing.
How old are your children?
Sounds like it's time for you to do the Last Resort Technique. Read that section in The Divorce Remedy on page 124 and make sure you have a plan. If you have questions about how this will change what you're doing, feel free to ask. Michele
