A week ago WAW ended formally her A w/Om by sending him an email and W cc'ed me on it. So far so good.
W still says she wants to work on it.
Now I have serious trust issues, very serious. Since a few weeks W made friends on myspace, when she learned I read her myspace she made her profile private. Shortly before that she contacted somebody who lives close by.
Since then a number of things happened. She wants to go to a concert by herself, later admitted she met people there that she knew from myspace. In the last four weeks there were several night where she had 'work'events and somtimes she came home past 1 am. She does not call or tell me about it. Only if I keep asking she admits things like 'oh we went dancing.....'
Two weeks ago W received 2 tickets for a show last Sat. She said she got them as a promotion (she works as a public realations person). She won't go to the show, she gave the tickets to somebody else. Then last week she tells me suddenly there is another 'workevent' exactly at the same time the show is. W said she will be home early. Wasn't of course and a very lame excuse.
Now I'm thinking about asking her for access to her myspace. Is this too much to ask from somebody who says wants to work on the M? The thing is, if I learn about a second A I'm out. Done. I won't fight again for this M if this happens.
Opinions? I know, this question would not be proper DBing.
