Quote: If it does, it is your heart that has become hardened.
I struggle with this every day. Prayer is the only way through this. And action.
I didn't say give him a chance and let him do nothing.
You said you would 'consider it' if he did these things.
If he does them, then consider it. Consider does not mean 'yes.'
Hold your ground. It should be at least a year for any changes he implements to take hold.
Your heart will change, in spite of you. Now you're angry, and rightfully so. Now you're frightened, and rightfully so. Eventually, the entrangement will pass and you can see things with a clearer head. If he's a man, he will make the changes necessary in the interim. If not, then you can be satisfied that you gave him all the rope you could.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
