I'm sorry but I cannot tell him that he has a chance. He doesn't. I don't care what he does, he will never really change, not to me. I will NOT live in total fear of my H. It is time to divorce. Besides if I told him that he had a chance he wouldn't get the help he so badly needs, he would continue to do nothing because he would have no fear of losing anything. He needs to lose everything and build back up from the bottom.
I will not enable him anymore.
Yesterday was sooooo much fun bowling. It was just like all the old times, just a riot. I enjoy going out with friends and laughing (mostly at myself) . . . .
