Kevin called me this morning. So upset and confused. I had told him that I was going to file for divorce, because I am simply done. Ready for it to be over! He said HE wouldn't sign it if I filed. He went on about how he didn't want a divorce. I told him it didn't work like that. . . he couldn't just expect to live with her and have a family there and just stay married to me. He said he is trying to get medical so that he can go to the doctors because he thinks he's "crazy" I almost have to agree. I tried to help him calm down. I told him I wouldn't file right now, poor guy has enough stress, but I tried to make it clear that we are over.