Thanks again! They came and changed my locks this morning. . . . so that is officially sorted out
I feel much safer now. MUCH! He can't just come in anytime and take anything he wants. I am scared that once he finds out that I am pressing charges, not that I have a choice. He will be angry and try to come back here. I just don't know. I want to protect the girls, but I'm worried they will still let him have them. Soooo scared. You would think they would figure it out, but I doubt it. It'll probably take one of them getting hurt for them to do anything, and that makes me sad. I wish now that I would have filed reports all the other times, the lady at Haven said they would need other counts of abuse to file the PDA. And that we'll have to have contact for the custody stuff og the kids, etc. . . . what CRAP! When they end up with a broken arm or a black eye . . . I will feel so bad. I should have done something before, but it was always hideable and I was always scared. A big black eye you can't hide. I just don't know. How awful.
