That was a very wise thing to do! How are you feeling?
I would suggest to take a file and keep all of the medical records, perscription labels, bills, etc. plus a copy of your photo in it for future use. Hide it in a secure place. I would also suggest that you don't answer any phone calls from the H, let him leave messages, but, don't erase any of them for future use. This could get more uglier than it already has. Protect yourself...
Keep posting so we know how you are doing, okay? We are here to support you.