Why would you feel ashamed? You didn't do anything wrong. You were trying to keep your family together. No matter what you say or do, doesn't give him the right to touch you. Even if he does say you swung at him first, does he have proof? I think you should call and report it. What if he comes around and does it again? What if he comes around and starts trouble? You need to get this on file so if something happens they have a record of it.
Don't worry about what people will think. They are going to see the black eye and you can't use the excuse you walked into a door. If I were there, I would think you a very strong person for going to the police. Stand up for your rights. Don't let him get away with this!!!
Emily, is this the first time something like this has happened? Be honest. You need to tell someone so he can get help. Do whatever it takes to protect you and your kids. Don't wait too long to call. Don't talk yourself out of it. Pick up the phone, dial and take care of it.
