The OW is PREGNANT, she's due in May I think Kevin said. KEVIN AND I ARE DEFINATELY DIVORCING. I told him I would call when I had a list of things that I feel should go into out papers (so that we can try to settle things without a judge doing it for us) He has agreed to only take visitation rights, and also to have it written somewhere that Cassie(OW) will never be left ALONE with our children if he were to get joint custody.
I have a HUGE puffy black eye out of all of this, I am trying to figure out just what to say to everyone. It all happened because she called here, because he told her he would return home lastnight, but he wanted to tell me in person that she was pregnant. So . . . she called and he got all kinds of angry at me, and I got angry right back . . . well push come to shove and I got a black eye and an eyebrow that won't quit bleeding.
I was awesome lastnight, even when he told me about the new baby coming. I said it's ok you know we can work through this. He and I had fun before that, laughing and joking and then all the truth just started coming.
What do I do . . .I don't even know how to think about divorce in legal terms and what I should do/say/etc.