I say, yeah, write off the M that you once had. Anything that seemed long-term and loving and respected is gone...out the window now.
Quote: I am not saying turn our backs, but someone in another forum said that the door will be left open, but I'm no longer going to stand there waiting for my X to knock.
I agree with you and you are right...you should NOT be standing there waiting for him to knock. That is what GAL is all about. You are now doing your thing and the thought pondering about XH is not there. But, at the same time, if you haven't met someone at the the time X decides to come back to give it another shot and you are still attracted and possibly still in love with him, then your door is still open. Make sense? The whole idea of "hanging on" for X to come back I think is getting misinterpreted in the way it is being put in some peoples posts.
No problem on the guy feedback...any other Q's just ask. Been there done that for over 16 yrs!
