FarAway;

You made sense, but if the X's moved on and in my case
with OW, shouldn't we write it off? I am not saying
turn our backs, but someone in another forum said that
the door will be left open, but I'm no longer going to
stand there waiting for my X to knock. That sounds like
pretty good sense.

Thanks for letting me know that my XH knows who the gift
was from. I needed a man's feedback. He kept it so I
guess I won't see it in my mailbox.