You made sense, but if the X's moved on and in my case with OW, shouldn't we write it off? I am not saying turn our backs, but someone in another forum said that the door will be left open, but I'm no longer going to stand there waiting for my X to knock. That sounds like pretty good sense.
Thanks for letting me know that my XH knows who the gift was from. I needed a man's feedback. He kept it so I guess I won't see it in my mailbox.