How can you say that time is on my side? We don't talk. How am I suppose to change his mind? One of his friends did hint that he wanted to date me; but I could'nt do that. One of the things my XH said to me at the end was that alot of guys will want to get into your pants and do not date any of his friends. I respect that.
Are we just kidding ourselves? A D is final...the decision was made...the X's want to start something new. Are we being stupid to hang on? Do we have low self esteem that we don't think someone else can make us happy? If they really loved us - would they go so far to D? I'm beginning to think that...although I hope it's not true.
Maybe we are the ones that need to let go...
By the way, the reference to the song was really about me not you. I didn't mean it was about you. You will always have the kids to keep you current and in her life. I am cut off.
Yes, I do think enough of myself to try, but when do you say.......he's gone...how many people re-marry an X and have it work out?
