Give yourself more credit than that. He KNOWS. He also knows who the gift is from. As far as the kids being ties....true but it doesn't chnage the fact that I have had as much communication with my XW as you have had with your XH......
Time...time IS on YOUR side.......it feels like everything is slipping away and there is no tomorrow annymore and everytime you hear a song or see some place you guys would go to or whatever....there he is in your mind. It sucks I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!
But...YOU have to start to move on...not out of his life or area or anything to that nature but yet start to make yourself that hot babe he found attractive in the first place. Other people will notice who still talk to him, email him, or phone him....your name WILL come up.
I would say don't worry but that is all we seem to do when this happens to us. Like my XW said....I had the opportunities to do something a while ago but chose not to. BULL!!!!!! I didn't know...I'm not a mind-reader....never have been!!!!!! But, I know now...I look back at what ALL this led up to and it is almost pretty clear why she left me......BAD MISTAKE on her part....she will never know what she could've had with our life together...maybe she will still have a chance.....only she knows that.
