I know the book says that...BUT......I don't feel like time is on my side. You have kids, they are your ties to XW. I don't have kids.......
I have to get this off my chest...I sent XH a surprise b-day gift. I know, no gifts...do the 180, etc. I made a mistake. I didn't sign the card, nor left a return address label. This was september, so far no returns. It was a signed baseball and card fromk T. Lasorda. I knew he would like it.
I was bad........but we always celebrated b-days. No news is good news....but, in my gut, I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle...one he does not even know about.