I know the book says that...BUT......I don't feel like
time is on my side. You have kids, they are your ties
to XW. I don't have kids.......

I have to get this off my chest...I sent XH a surprise
b-day gift. I know, no gifts...do the 180, etc. I made
a mistake. I didn't sign the card, nor left a return
address label. This was september, so far no returns.
It was a signed baseball and card fromk T. Lasorda. I
knew he would like it.

I was bad........but we always celebrated b-days. No news
is good news....but, in my gut, I feel like I'm fighting
a losing battle...one he does not even know about.