Kind of a weird post in the sense that you say you were dumb when you met and that you met someone at work and that he was cheating on you the whole time.....do you think that you guys were even meant for each other?
Quote: I still love him and think we were both too young at the time we married.
Do you think you *grew* in love with him or do you think that you ARE in love with him now? Are you still seeing that "someone" at work?
As far as communicating, I'd have to say that you should read some other posts on here....slow down...the world isn't going to end tomorrow....sounds like the REAL worst has happened. Now you have to step back think things through and start DBing from scratch. Do you have the DB book?
Lastly, you will get replies just be patient. This is also a DB thing you HAVE to learn. You'll get help...just hang in there. Let everyone catch up from the weekend.