He changes his image or style, such as losing weight or buying new clothing. yes- lost weight only
He tells you there is something wrong with you and says you need to seek professional help. tells me there is something wrong with me, but doesn't tell me I need help
He changes his behavior when it comes to money. a little bit....
He changes his sexual behavior, including patterns, positions and frequency. yes
He buys you unexpected gifts and does good deeds, such as chores around the house or helping more with the children. no
He has absences that he cannot explain. no, he works too many hours
There are hang-ups on your home phone. no, happened once
He leaves earlier for work and arrives home later.
YUP
I am not sure of the credibility of this list. I am also not sure if it is me overreacting as mentioned above. I know that if I ask him he will say "No" no matter what. He will say he is moody because I am making him miserable, he is tired because he is working so much, he has been sick and doesn't feel well.
I guess it's safe to say that I am in panic mode. No matter how doubtful I have been as to whether or not we would work out, I guess I wasn't truly prepared to possibly face infidelity again. If it's so...(IF) then I don't know if I have the strength to endure and pick myself up and take care of myself and my kids.
I could really use some advice/suggestions/ 2x4's right now. I guess it is time to re-buy the DB book and do some hard work on myself one more time.
Last edited by StrongEnough; 10/25/0610:08 PM.
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
