I was poking around here...trying to look for the information on signs of cheating. Believe it or not, having been through it doesn't really seem to help me spot the signs again. Also, I can't be sure I am not over-reacting here. Here are the signs:

Very moody
Very distant
Suddenly not interested in physcial touch anymore....barely kisses me once a day
Works WAY MORE then he is required to
Happy at work- Miserable at home
Blames me for everything wrong
Has zero patience for me or the kids
Turned into a slob

He has always been one to keep his hair neat, stay clean shaven, etc. So, appearance wise it's still the same...but I did notice he has lost weight.

Anyone have any thoughts?

~SE

I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007