Always gives some good advice - simple and true. You both have to live to that committment you just made and one other thought is to give each other a time out - saying let's talk about this when we've had a moment to calm down - like we "agreed" on X date.
You both need to be building those love banks, or emotional bank accounts like Steven Covey calls them. The pleases and thank you's and other smaller acts of humility can really be the trick. I've seen that with my WAW. That way when we have blow out, I don't completely over draw my (our) account.
Here's to a good day and good weekend!
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.