I do see we regress at times, but even as detached as my H is from me, he knows that neither of us will settle for less (being happy w/each other and confortable in our R).
I do agree with the above post, you guys need a third party so you can learn to deal with the anger and arguments, C won't tell you how to agree on everything, it will teach you how to work together to find a solution without pointing fingers and figuring who did what.
Until then, I see it can be rough if he doesnt' admit he has an anger problem, admitting is half the battle.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
