goodfellow, Start with The Divorce Remedy. ************************** DB713- Great plan. I love your ingenuity! I also like how you have become a real student of this DB stuff! *************************** Oldmedic, What happens when you invite her out to lunch and keep it light? Does that work well? *************************** kcee- As to the therapist, I think that it would be great if your wife was seeing a solution-oriented therapist even if the only thing they're discussing is her. I am not sure that her therapist will take too kindly to your suggesting a different approach. A good therapist wouldn't push working on the marriage is someone is "not ready" to do so.
Giving her a portion of the Divorce Remedy couldn't hurt. Try it out. Good luck! Michele