I have read the section on affairs. I have come to the conclusion the Om is giving my wife two things in emotional support area. 1. He is listening to her and not solving her problems. I have started this when we are together. 2. He is doing things with her which is giving her his time. Well with going dark this is difficult to do.
Question: Do I continue to ask her to lunch every other week to talk about the boys and keep it light. or is this persueing. Do I let her contact me only. I am not sure which direction to go. Or do I just let this A thing run it's course?
I suspect as she moves from her friends house into her own I will hear more from her. What do you think? I know she is watching me I think to see if I have another woman. I don't understand that, and I don't and will not for a long time after any ending of this.
