OK Michele.

Goal 1 - I would like h to contact me more often just to see how I am and not just out of necessity.

Goal 2 - I would like h to begin acting as if we still might have a future together.

Goal 3 - I'd like h to open up communication about us - our future - where he is at, etc.

Goal 4 - I'd like to spend more time with him even if it were just as friends for now.

Goal 5 - I would like h to not see ow again.

Too lofty? I have backed off for 3 months waiting for him to "find himself". He is the type to not make the first move. He never shows any emotion. If he thinks I want a divorce he would agree to it even if he didn't. Not because he is willing to please me but he is not a fighter. He holds his emotions in and never confronts them. Will never admit he is wrong or hurt or upset. Where do I go from here?

Brenda