My book arrived at my door yesterday via amazon!! I am going to start reading it tonight and hopefully will be done by the time the book club starts. I have four months left until my D is final - but I do have to say things have moved in a more positive direction as a result of the DB principles. Don't know if its enough to save my marriage, but at least I'm taking care of myself and will know I did the best I could to try and save it. Michele, your work is such a great support to all of us - don't know what I'd do without it. Can't wait to start reading.