I just received the book in the mail from Amazon yesterday. I have read several chapters and am most impressed. I want to be in the club! I am divorced, but there have been breakthroughs, and I have been posting here off and on for awhile and have received much support. I have not given up hope for reconcilliation, and will use all I learn here to continue on my journey> I know this book is geared towards those who are not yet divorced, but I am confident there are skills here for everyone, no matter where you are in the relationship!! Michelle, the book is great!!