i can't seem to get an i love you, or thanks, or sorry or whatever unless it is solicited now. there seems to be nothing heart-felt.
She's cross with you. You need to find out why. Don't make it about you as in "why aren't you being nice to me?" Find out what's going on for her in a spirit of concern for her. If she starts to get the feeling that you care for her because you care for HER not because you need something back from her perhaps it will be a baby-step in the right direction.
When did all this start?
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
