Quote: This has to be incredibly difficult for the LD spouse. In order to save their marriage, they literally have to change there own personality. This is WAY beyond sex, it's about how being HD actually effects ALL of your own personality. Women think this is all about sex, it is not. It is about how the change in sex drive actually changes her personality. So focusing on the sex does NOT fix the problem. This again is a point in Dr. Lauras book.
Cemar, it is just not true that LD spouses must change their personality in order to impact the marital sex life in a positive manner.
