Don't get me wrong, I doubt very many men would be DRIVEN by revenge and deny sex later (with the exception of PitHarmon who seems to be completely dominated by it), it may just be an unconscious thing. I'll bet many men in these situations store the resentment, and then as you say move other things up on the priority list. Then when/if the W starts to get horny, the combination of unconscious/stuffed resentment (which produces a revenge response) and the fact that it is a low priority can lead to a HD/LD role reversal.
But I will openly admit, in those really quiet moments in life, when my mind wanders through all of its dark corners, the thought "if she suddenly were to become really HD about 5-10 years from now, I would be able to get her back!" pops into my head. I dismiss it out of hand, because I plan on remaining HD until my parts fall off, but the thought does lurk there. I am not a revenge person either, but sometimes our deepest feelings can be hidden even from ourselves.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
