Betsey, Point taken. I will go to the meeting but bring everything home to review with H before a decision is made. Is that ok or is that letting him off the hook as an equal partner?
Another thing, I made an appointment to get one of our dogs groomed today. H mentioned last night that since we are short on money he thought there were better things we could do with the $50, so instead of disregarding what he said and taking the dog in anyway (she badly needs a grooming btw) I am going to cancel the appt. Cool?