Hi Always, Thanks for posting to me. Since the posts from Betsey and OT I have really been making a conscience effort to speak to my H directly and as an equal partner. For example we are entertaining the thought of refinancing. The loan officer would like to meet with both of us but because of our conflicting work schedules it would be really difficult. I told my H that he is willing to meet with just one of us and asked him when would be a good time for him. He deferred it to me since I handle the finances. I said I would be happy to handle it if it was ok with him. I know that doesn't sound like much to some of you, but I would normally just take control and make decisions without ever asking his opinion.
H had this past Saturday off so we had a really nice day. Took the kids bowling and then out for a late lunch where I work. I have alot of friends there and they all made a point to come over and talk to H. (Now if he would just introduce me to his friends...)
Anyhow, I am really trying to let H know how much I appreciate him. I am definitely thinking before I speak, something I'm not always that good at.
