My head is swimming. I meant that I would keep my mouth shut for the next couple of days so that I can digest everything you wrote and make sure that when I do speak I am direct.
Quote: Direct communication = direct reports about yourself and direct questions to him
And, you need to figure out your boundaries and communicate them. Right now, you are talking out both sides of your mouth -- on the one hand you tell him it is fine if he talks to OW, on the other hand I'm sure that you are also letting him know that there will be hell to pay if you "catch" him again.
You are afraid to set a boundary, as a result, you are sabotaging your M.
I will re-read that again and again, cause you are right; there will be hell to pay.
Gotta run to blockbuster with the kids. I know you must be busy so thanks for spending so much time with me today. I look forward to hearing from you again.
