you ARENT fk'd up, you'd be if you'd only blame H without accepting your part and with no intentions of changing, and you are here, trying your damnest to be change behaviors that have gone unchecked for years, that AINT easy!
Yes, we've done wrong, we've repented and now we have a chance to make things right, we aren't running away, you and I and all here have chosen the hardest road, to forgive terrible hurts, to act as if, to be humble, that my dear mamabear, isnt' fkd up.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.