Come on, dig deeper. Do you tell him what to do when he;s doing something not exatly the way you'd do it? Do you make most of the decisions in the house? Do you let him take care of something without "helpful hings"? even if you are uneasy of how it will turn out? I used to fret so much when H stayed w/d3, was anxious to know if he fed her, clothed her right, if he took her out enough, would call him to tell him what to do as if he had no brain. I now bite the bullet and I know even if she goes out w/ mistmach socks and eats McD that day she'll live and will be ok.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
