Quote: Mama, if I had to encapsulate everything I read in your post (from his POV) it would be that everything continues to be about you and about how you feel. Frankly, I'd like to see you do more loving discussions than blind accusations that you retract a few moments later.
If you want lasting change, Mama, you're going to have to pony up and do the job first. I mean it. You can't go back to the old ways of doing things--he's already learned that he doesn't want that. That's why he's arguing with you more. So what are YOU going to do to change?
This is the vicious cycle I have been in for a long time now. The problem is; I DO NOT know what to do to chage, hence the reason I am here in Piecing asking for help.
