Betsey,, I read your post and it made me cry,,,
thanks for posting that I am going to put it in my thread so I can read it Daily for awhile...


I am blessed just to have you all open my eyes alot more to what my H may be feeling,, lately he has been very verbally abusive with me and I felt it all came from a place of arrogance,, I dunno how to explain in so many words but I will try to in my own thread as now I have really hijacked mama bears thread ( THANK YOU SWEETIE )and I was just commenting on the magically dissappear thought,, I wish her the best in getting her husband to support her and I should have kept it at that but for some reason me being vague has proven to be a blessing for me.

Thank you all once again for your posts, once again this board has helped me tremendously.
God bless....
Ali