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Again, he thinks things are fine and getting better. Why am I challenging him?




Because you are still incredibly hurt, angry, and resentful about the A and are not confronting that issue directly. That hurt, anger and resentment WILL come out, one way or another. So, maybe it is time to ask for some of what you need to heal with respect to the A.

Best,
Oldtimer


Best,
Oldtimer