Well, ML seems to mean that we are back together but...since I believe H went thru a mini MLC he still needs to work on the issues that sent him to the arms of OW in the first place. IMHO
I tried talking to him briefly before I went to work last night. I said it upsets me that we argue all the time, we NEVER used to argue before the bomb. He gets all defensive and says we don't always argue. I said he seems like he is always mad and looks at me like he hates me. He said that wasn't true. We had a few words about his parents and he can't really come out and say it but I gather it makes him feel like a loser when they send $. Whatever, that is something he needs to deal with.
At one point he said you can't make things better by reading books and manuals (I beg to differ but I didn't say anything). He also thinks I talk about him to my family and he feels uncomfortable around them - Again, that is his problem to deal with. He made his bed now he has to lie in it.
Anyway, I picked up some more shifts and he has lined up some extra overtime - this way we won't be around eachother that much for a while and that's a good thing cause I need to get out of this drama for a while.
