Cat, My H never moved out but really, he doesn't have to report every little thing to me. I am his partner not his mother. I do think a phone call to let me know his plans have changed would have only been common courtesy. He thinks if he calls me then I will give him $hit, so he doesn't call. He thought he would stop for 1 or 2 beers and it wouldn't be an issue. Well he was having a good time and lost track of time. Once he realized how late it was he was like, well, I'm already in the dog house. He did call on his way home to apologize though. I should have accepted it and left it at that but NO, not me. I went off and made him feel even worse than he already did.
This is my anger issue that I need to get a grip on and control better.
Anyhow, things ended well. We ML for the third time in as many weeks. This for me is huge!! Before the bomb I was so wrapped up in my kids and the home day care that I was running that we probably ML 3 times in the whole year. Which obviously led to him hooking up with OW
for the third time in as many weeks. This for me is huge!! Before the bomb I was so wrapped up in my kids and the home day care that I was running that we probably ML 3 times in the whole year. Which obviously led to him hooking up with OW 
