Quote: Many times when I expressed some discontentment, my H would say "it takes time. you cannot expect everything to be back to normal immediately. please dont stir things up. Things are fine and are getting better"...
I can relate to this. H and I had a very similar conversation very recently.
I guess the bottom line is PATIENCE. This is something that I never was really very good at. I am the type of person that likes everything NOW. Immediate gratification. This past year I have learned that I really do have alot more patience than I thought I did.
I need to be greatful for the fact that H has decided that me and the kids are worth giving up the OW for and that he wants to stay married.
I will be greatful for all the small things because in the long run they add up to a great big thing!!
I will live today to its full measure - I will not try to live yesterday or tomorrow.
I will be positive and confident, honest and trustworthy and go to bed with visions of happiness. Visions of a happy M with my H.
