Sorry, but I'm bumping to the top again... there must be others here that are piecing their M back together. Come on, let me in on what I can expect. I feel that my expectations are probably too high, and whenever my H doesn't fulfill them I am majorly dissappointed. Help me out here. When the WAS decides to stay in the marriage, how do they act. Are they affectionate or do they withhold affection because they can't give it, for whatever reason? I just want things to work out, ya know? I have DB'd for almost 1 year. Put up with things that I NEVER thought that I would. I thought that if my S cheated on me, that would be it. But it's not. Some may think I am crazy, but I don't care. I want to desperately fix my M. Help?