Thanks Cat,
A year huh?
Well, it's been almost a year since this whole mess started and I'm still alive and kickin' - so I guess if it takes another year to rebuild our R then so be it.

I can see from your sign off that your H is back, how long has he been back? Has he opened up to you yet? My H really hasn't yet. We had a fight at the end of August and I told him in the heat of the moment to just leave. He then stated that he wasn't going to give up me, our kids, or our home for anyone or anything. Since then he has been coming straight home from work everyday (except for once) so I am assuming that things with OW are over.

Is your H affectionate with you?
How are the relationships with others on this "piecing" forum?