Hi All, I've been on the infidelity board since the beginning of the year. Bomb was in Oct. 05. Although H has not "admitted" anything, it appears that he has recommitted to our marriage. Keep in mind H is not a talker and gets very uncomfortable having R talks. He tells me we are fine and writes ILY on notes he leaves me each day, although he never says ILY. When we are together he seems very standoff-ish. We recently ML, the first time since last November, but there was no talk before, during or after. It's almost like it never happened. He shows no affection towards me at all. He will hug me goodnight but will turn his face far away from mine to avoid kissing me.
Is this guilt? He is still missing OW? Is he just not into me? Can someone on this forum help me out? Thanks.
