Quote: She says that she has never had an O through IC. I know she hasn’t ever with me. I will either give her OS (almost every time) or my hand to get her there, sex without reciprocity just doesn’t feel right to me.
I read stats that say only 20% - 25% of women are able to climax via intercourse alone. Has her inability to do that been an issue for you?
Quote: Don’t most new mothers want to spend all the time they can with their newborns?
Some women don't have a very strong maternal instinct.
Some women refuse to make themselves financially/professionally vulnerable by becoming a stay-at-home mom.
Quote: I’ve made an appointment with my doctor and am going to ask him to put me on one of the anti-d’s that has very substantial sexual side effects. I just can’t stand feeling this rejection anymore. I’ve never been lonelier in my life than as I feel in this marriage. If I divorced I know that I would feel lonely, but to lay down nightly with a woman that has no sexual desire for you . . .
This seems to be an extreme measure. What sort of discussions/arguments have you and your wife had regarding sex?
