Ok, guys jump in here. It is my opinion that masturbation is more physically stimulating. I have seen "actions" that I would think hurt that are applied with great furvor.
Could it be the same as the "vibrator" being satisfying but the H not?
When was his last physical? How is his health? I missed, what is his age?
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay