H wont have sex with me

[DFE]

Sorry it took so long to get back. You had asked if I thought there was any basis to him saying I was controlling. I dont think I was controlling I was just responsible for a lot of stuff. It seemed he wanted it that way. It was less stress for him. I would take care of our finances and he didnt have to worry about anything. He never said it bothered him.

Anyhow we have not made love since that one time several weeks back. I dont even know how to initiate anything out of fear of rejection. Is it really better masturbating than having to be with me? I just dont understand.