H wont have sex with me

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Believe me I have thought about him being gay numerous times but he doesnt seem to have a problem being turned on by other women. Lately he is turned on by me too but not how it used to be. I think it is a lot of trust issues. Although I have never ever done anything to make him mistrust me he feels that throughout our relationship I have been very controlling with our lives and money. I cant help but to think this might be a way for him to take control of some aspect of our lives.