Not to belabor it (NOT ME! NO! )... but I think you're a wonderfully kind and understanding person and these people are simply under the influence of different preferences. I don't think they are any kinder or more understanding. When my girlfriend discovered that she really didn't have any sexual interest in her H, and that she would prefer the sexual company of a woman, she was relieved when he and I got together. She told me this explicitly after his death, although I certainly knew it implicitly while he was alive.
Now, from his POV, he seemed genuinely happy when she met a woman with whom she was compatible. It didn't seem to bother him that she wasn't interested sexually in him., Of course, he was a 7 and some of them do their best to be okay with whatever happens. We'll never know how he really felt about it. Maybe HE qualifies for the "Better" designation.
I just meant that it's a question of preferences and not any superiority of character.
If you don't like chocolate, then giving it up for Lent is no sacrifice for you, kwim?
)... but I think you're a wonderfully kind and understanding person and these people are simply under the influence of different preferences. I don't think they are any kinder or more understanding. When my girlfriend discovered that she really didn't have any sexual interest in her H, and that she would prefer the sexual company of a woman, she was relieved when he and I got together. She told me this explicitly after his death, although I certainly knew it implicitly while he was alive. 