I agree with you (and you aren't fanning any flames ). What you stated is kind of my point we don't have enough info...but issues like this are rarely that black & white. My point to Pit was more that his delivery of his opinion & perspective...was a bit insensitive.
He has experience with his SO turning out gay, you have experience with your sis going through something similar...so obviously that possibility isn't discounted, it's a viable possibility. I and several other women on this BB have experience with completely straight men with normal testosterone levels behaving in a very similar manner though...for completely different reasons.