That was a very insensitive response. YOUR W may have turned out gay, but that does not mean her H is.
There are women (and men too) on here who are married to someone with deeper issues where the answers aren't as simple as gay/straight. Take my own H for example...he's definitely NOT gay...BUT he does have other issues that stemm from his past (whore/madonna) and the fact that he was raised by parents that didn't show affection towards each other in front of the kids or in public (they formed his behavior as role-models). BELIEVE me at different times in this process I've gone through with him...I almost wished I'd discover he was gay, it would have been a comfort of sorts to me, but he's not. Oh..and he's also got normal testosterone levels (had those checked early on.)
Please think before you post something so insensitive to someone who is in obvious pain. There CAN be many other mental/trust issues at play.
