Hi,It definately is not easy,but i agree with the majority,you have to make yourself happy.That is where the best comes from. As far as,if you can ever be happy with your decision,i think if you really love each other that it can and will work.Any relationship can turn sour,but if you really love each other it can be worked out.I feel that both parties need to work on it though.I feel for those that don't get the love from spouse when the spouse returns.That would be difficult.God Bless,K
